after reading theses links and all of that over the time of this hole thing i think i am ok with what IW is doing. this is huge amongst alot of the pc player but IW said "(IW has cited numbers of people online playing illegal copies of Modern Warfare up to 60 percent)." they had also said " West and Zampella hammer the point that hardcore PC players lose very little to this change relative to the returns that casual to moderate fans will see. Clans can set up private matches to do their training or what have you; all they lose is the ability to customize the game on a deeper level with mods and such." so yeah i am ok with it so please check out these links

http://www.mw2blog.com/infinity-ward-respond-to-no-dedicated-server-backlash/

http://gameinformer.com/b/news/archive/2009/10/20/modern-warfare-2-dedicated-server-response.aspx

this i also found really cool!!!!!!! All you have to do is select the playlist (pre-set gametypes with custom rules) that fits the style of play you are in the mood for. When you do, it will automatically find you a game with the best performance, ping, and preferences based on your location and individual connection as well as matching you with players of your same SKILL. So you’re always guaranteed the best game performance for where you are and what connection you’re playing on as well as an equal game with other players of your same skill level, not rank, but skill level. It doesn’t mean you’ll just be thrown into a random game! It will put you in the game that will give you the smoothest gameplay possible without you having to manually find a server with the best ping.