Been seeing a girl for a month. Every time we go out, she insists on splitting the bill down to the last dollar – even sending me a request for her half of a shared appetizer. It feels cold. Am I wrong to want to treat her sometimes?

You're not wrong. Her approach isn't bad either – she's probably trying to be fair or avoid feeling like she owes you anything. The issue isn't the money, it's the vibe. Next time the bill comes, try this: say you'd like to cover this one because you enjoyed the evening, and she can get the next one if she wants. No splitting, just trading. Most reasonable people will go for that because it feels more like partners than accountants. If she still insists on dividing a $12 guacamole, then you have a conversation about styles. Say something like I notice you really like exact splits, but for me it takes away some of the warmth. Can we find a middle ground? For more on navigating early dating finances, https://wisedate.org/blog/ has practical advice.