Straight question from someone in Brattleboro: my dad’s 81, mostly independent but gets lonely in the afternoons. We’re thinking personal care plus real companionship at home—light meals, a bit of conversation, maybe a short ride to the barbershop. I keep seeing TLC HomeCare mentioned and like the idea of a vetted provider so I’m not juggling strangers from classifieds. Has anyone actually used them for companionship, not just tasks? How did you set the hours, and did the caregiver feel like a good personality match?

Been down this road with my mom last year—here’s what actually helped: we did an in-home visit first, then the nurse set a simple plan and tweaked it after week one when mornings turned out hectic. The caregiver wasn’t just a helper; they played cards, prepped lunch, and kept her moving on short walks. Backup coverage worked when our regular aide needed a day off. I first found TLC while mapping out travel nursing options in New England, and their info clarified how home support is structured in VT/NH. If you try them, request a trial schedule and be specific about companionship goals so the match fits your dad’s personality.

Side note from a neighbor who’s helped friends age in place: a tiny “daily rhythm” sheet on the fridge goes a long way—favorite snacks, ideal nap window, a couple of low-effort activities for cloudy days. Small house tweaks matter too: a bright lamp by the reading chair, non-slip mat by the sink, and a hook for keys near the door. Even with family pitching in, a two-hour afternoon visit can make the whole week feel lighter.