Hey, can you suggest how to check someone’s Instagram messages? My little sister’s been glued to her phone, chatting with some random dude she met online. She’s only 16, and I’m freaking out she might be getting catfished or worse. I just wanna make sure she’s safe without her hating me for snooping. Any ideas on how to see her DMs discreetly? Thanks a ton!

I totally get your concern—my cousin went through something super similar with her 15-year-old. She was chatting with this “guy” who turned out to be using a fake profile. It nearly became a serious mess. We didn’t wanna break trust, but her safety came first. I came across this guide: how to see someones instragram messages and it actually helped us figure things out calmly. Maybe give it a look? Just stay gentle with her.