It seems to me that most players are having disconnection problems when the esc button is triggered would it be on the server that error?

Probably they're no-steam users and a server modify their esc button

edstivi wrote:
It seems to me that most players are having disconnection problems when the esc button is triggered would it be on the server that error?

You're referring to a [possibly] game-specific issue and in which case, we have no idea which [game] you're referring to.

Consider posting in the community forum associated with that game.

That's the most logical thing to do.