As sad as it is to say out of the 300 something people that are left playing this game, these guys are the most toxic community out there. It's run by 2 clowns that have no idea what they're doing and ban people for any reason. I'd recommend literally ANY other server to join.
If you are looking for a friendly server then come visit us at 1st Marine Raiders. We have a lot of regulars and unit members that play on the server and we have a good time. People talk and banter a lot and we are always willing to help if there are any questions. Our motto is Respect and that is for all players in the unit or not.